Staying home with the kids on sick days taught me how to survive the summer

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Staying home with the kids on sick days taught me how to survive the summer

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I often have one of our children home sick with me. I used to complain and say, “Not again!” But we have four kids, and as my husband and I remind each other: This is what we signed up for. Over the past year, I’ve started to shift my mindset. Now, when someone’s sick, I tell myself – and them – that today is the best day ever.

I learned to reframe the day as a chance to create something magical, even something tiny. It’s not just for them. It’s for you, too.

Parents throw around the term “survival mode” a lot, even when the stress is mild. But stress – big or smal