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Dear How to Do It,

My husband “Dale” and I came up with an idea to spice up our sex life about a month and a half ago. I was totally down for it until a certain someone came along.

We have been taking turns visiting each other at work during our lunch hours and having sex in one of our cars. This had been quite thrilling until recently when one of Dale’s co-workers happened by and saw what we were doing. He was a good sport about it and kept it to himself. After that experience I told my husband I wasn’t sure this was such a good idea any longer because someone else could see us. Dale said as far as he’s concerned, the prospect made it all the more exciting! Should

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