Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we’re diving into the How to Do It archives to share classic letters with our readers. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous!

Dear How to Do It,

I’m a 30-year-old woman who has always been interested in kink, and I have been very lucky to start dating a younger man who I find immensely attractive, is bisexual like me, and is a switch in the bedroom. However, he recently confessed to me that his biggest kink is ABDL—adult baby/diaper lovers—and he’d like me to occasionally take a “mommy” role in the bedroom. I never thought of myself as judgmental when it comes to kink, but I’ve found myself wondering how I can become OK with the idea of seeing the man I love in diapers and bibs

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