Dear Eric : I’m conflicted about whether or not to invite my sister to my son’s wedding.
My sister and I have never been close. She was never very kind to, nor interested in, my son, my husband or me. We’ve had entire decades of silence while she lived a relatively chaotic life.
She’s divorced, estranged from her adult children, and her son didn’t invite her to his own wedding.
She has recently accepted that she’s suffering from a lifetime of mental illness. I’m back in her life as a supporter of it all, and intensely proud of her path.
I mentioned to her that my son is getting married. I now regret letting my excitement lead to sharing the news.
She’s started to text me with opinions about wedding details — down to how the bride should wear her hair.
She’s critical of the couple’s