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Hey Matt. I have been with my boyfriend for about three years and he recently mentioned how he wants to explore having sex with other people. This isn’t entirely new to me as when we started the relationship, he mentioned how he feels like he could be ethically non-monogamous. I knew one day this would show up and even though I have been mentally preparing for it, I still feel unsettled. I don’t see myself being ethically non-monogamous, so could someone like me be with someone like him?

- Anonymous female

What an interesting dilemma you find yourself in, Anonymous female. In sex and relationship therapy, we would call this a “mono/po

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