A man's world was turned upside when he discovered that he wasn't the biological father to his sons.

Jay Skibbens, from Illinois, already had a sinking feeling when he mailed off two DNA kits. His sons were 15 months and 30 months old, and he suspected he wasn't their biological father.

"Finding out … completely shattered me," Skibbens, 37, told Newsweek . "It also broke into a million pieces the definition I had of being a dad. I really questioned whether I was a dad anymore."

Initially, he didn't process the news well. "Anger was the first big emotion to come out," he said. For a year, he directed that rage toward their boys' mother.

But the turning point came when Skibbens realized the anger was eating away at him, not her.

"I was angry because I had put myself in a position wher

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