Dear A&E,

I’m always seeing women moan about being golf widows but in my marriage , it’s the other way around. I ride horses and the stables are close by. Most of the weekend I find myself there either riding, mucking out or generally helping the stables run smoothly. The problem is my husband isn’t interested in horses at all and resents the time that I spend there. He complains that we don’t have any shared passions but I don’t have a passion for doing crosswords or sitting in front of the TV. Our children will flee the nest soon so what can I do to make him feel less resentful?

Love, Annoyed

Dear Annoyed,

You ask what you can do to make your husband less resentful. There is something interesting going on with your tone which, to us, sounds resentful. So, our immediate question t

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