Asking Eric: I’m tired of questions about my heritage

DEAR ERIC: As a Spanish-American, my ancestors from Spain have resided in the United States since long before the first Thanksgiving.

When one acquaintance inquired about my origin, I assumed he meant the city I recently relocated from. He clarified by asking if I was from Guatemala. In a social context, that question is exclusively directed at me. I have also encountered strangers who have initiated such inquiries. In such instances, I find it appropriate to reciprocate the question in order to alleviate any discomfort or awkwardness.

I have light skin and brown eyes, which may lead one to assume that I should blend in. I am proud of my Spanish heritage. But obviously, there is something that sets me apart. Maybe it’s my last name.

I generally refrain from inquiring about individuals’