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Dear Eric: I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for most of my 20s, and while I still love him, I find myself wondering if I am still attracted to him.

In the last few years, he has significantly stopped taking care of himself. As a very active and healthy person (I run marathons, bike, lift weights regularly, et cetera), I find it hard to retain that attraction when he does not exercise, eats very poorly, consumes hundreds of grams of sugar a day and overall leads a very sedentary lifestyle.

With those things, and bodies changing from young

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