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I am a 42-year-old woman and I am writing in because I can’t stop fantasizing about my neighbor. A little background, I am married with a couple of kids and my husband travels some for work. We have lived in our house for five years and have known our neighbors just as long. My husband and I have a decent sex life, but since having kids, it isn’t as exciting as it used to be. The strange thing about this is that my neighbor isn’t even my type. In fact, he is quite the opposite. Yet, I find myself fantasizing about what sex would be like with him. I don’t have any desire to cheat on my partner, but I find that these fantasies

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