Dear Abby: Nine months ago, my friend "Anne" moved in with me after losing her home following her boyfriend's death. Since then, she's had trouble finding employment, but when she does work, she spends money on stuff she really doesn't need. She's always talking about how she hates to be a burden on me and will move out ASAP. Then she buys random stuff from online shopping sites (like designer purses and clothes), so I doubt she's saving for her own place yet. She says it's because she's been through a lot and she deserves it. She has a "you only live once" mindset. She once encouraged me to buy a brand-new $300 set of luggage "just because I liked it." She also shows her appreciation to me by buying me things.

We're both in our mid-50s, each with an only child in their 30s, and I'm try

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