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A mother and father clash over a birthday cake tradition at their son's first birthday
The debate centers on whether to follow a custom that even made the dad upset as a child
The mom seeks advice on balancing family tradition with her child's happiness
A mother seeks advice from the Reddit community after clashing with her husband about their baby’s upcoming first birthday. She explains that her husband is “really adamant about pushing the baby’s face into the cake,” a tradition he had growing up that she feels strongly against.
The mom shares that she is worried her son might not enjoy it, writing, “for one the baby may laugh but he might also cry. Also, it’s his birthday and we shouldn’t be doing anything that he may not enjoy.” She emphasizes that her little boy is