DEAR ABBY: Once a month, I meet for lunch and cards with three women I have known for many years. We have lots of fun, but it is bittersweet for me. I am aware the three of them get together and communicate often, but not with me. What really bothers me is they attempt to hide it from me. I’m considering dropping out of these get-togethers because I feel hurt that I am being excluded. Or should I just try to ignore it? -- LEFT OUT IN INDIANA

DEAR LEFT OUT: These women may for some reason feel they have more in common with each other than they do with you, and they are secretive about their communications in an effort to avoid hurting your feelings. Do you have friends other than these women? If the answer is no, start looking around for activities you can join so you can meet new people.

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