Shaun White and Nina Dobrev stunned fans when they called off their engagement and suddenly split after five years together , while a friend says it had been a long time coming, RadarOnline . com can reveal.

The gold-medal-winning snowboarder, 39, and The Vampire Diaries alum, 36, were photographed holding hands days before their breakup. Still, the pair had grown apart due to their vastly different plans for the future. Article continues below advertisement

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"Shaun is retired and has had his last Olympics; he was very ready for marriage and kids and all that comes from that," an insider told the Daily Mail .

"Nina was on board but also very interested in seeing where her acting

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