DEAR ERIC: Should I tell my sister that her son, “Noah,” a recent college grad looking for a job, comes across as entitled in a job interview? This may be the reason he is still hunting for a job a full year after graduation when his peers have secured positions.
I am aware of this remark because a friend of a friend of mine is a manager of a company where Noah interviewed. Although my contact did not directly interview him, he received feedback from his managers. The two managers who separately interviewed Noah both reported that although he seemed eager for the job and qualified, he came across as entitled and privileged.
My sister is protective of him and is very sensitive that he’s been unsuccessful in finding a job after more than a year. When our mother asked about why it has taken