Dear Boss,
I recently relocated to another state and began looking for a job. Throughout my search, I have come across an interesting and unusual (to me) phenomenon: ghosting. I have been ghosted by pre-screeners, HR directors, hiring managers, and a VP. In each case I have sent follow-up emails to express my continued interest in the position and … crickets.
In one interview, the HR director literally said, “I will call you next week,” “I won’t ghost you,” and, “I don’t intend to ghost you, I promise.” I had not mentioned anything to her during our interview. And yes, she ghosted me. I sent a follow-up email, and no, I did not hear anything back from her.
In my chosen field, I am looking for a mid- to upper-management position. The size and structure of the company doesn’t seem to matt