Dear Abby,

I am frustrated with my husband. We have been together for 18 years. When it gets close to my menstrual cycle, he gets into an angry panic for us to be intimate because he travels for work and is home only four nights a week. If we’re not able to, he pouts, then becomes angry and distant, and peppers me for updates to determine how soon we can resume intimacy.

Regardless of how I feel at my time of the month, my feelings are ignored. He claims I “don’t make time for him” even though he’s out most evenings volunteering and doesn’t return until after 11 p.m. My day starts at 6:30 a.m., and I can’t stay up that late and function the next day. Is it right for him to be angry with me over something my body does naturally? Is it my duty to make sure he’s satisfied before my cycle co

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