It’s hard to remember that weddings are supposed to be fun when you’re busy stressing over whether your Nuuly rental is black-tie appropriate. And honestly, that’s one of the easy ones. Weddings in general have become far more of an ordeal thanks to social media and the comparison game, and they’re now so customized and curated that even the dress codes have started to sound like Mad Libs. Couples are requesting attendees to wear specific colors , curating elaborate mood boards for them to follow, and straying so far from attire guidelines that guests are left to interpret what the hell “ western elegance ” or “ New Year’s Eve chic ” even means. And while there are helpful spaces on the internet, like the r/Weddingattireapproval sub-Reddit, sometimes crowdsourcing opinions on

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