This week, we have three very relatable dating questions:

Question: I really like Gerry and don’t feel like sifting through other profiles. But is that wise? Should I still go through the motions as backup options until my three-month Match subscription ends, in case Gerry and I fizzle? I know he likes me.

-- Jane, 62, Orlando, Florida

Answer: Of course you should not go through the motions if you like Gerry! Enjoy yourself with him. We don’t plan for contingencies. Should things not work, we can cross that bridge later. (There will always be interesting people around who like you and who you may like.) I fully believe that having a backup plan actually impacts the quality of the current relationship, and not for the better, so enjoy it and put the profile away!

Question: I’m in a dile

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