NEED TO KNOW
A woman told Reddit that she planned to get surgery after major weight loss
Her husband argued that she should prioritize having another baby instead
She wondered if choosing her own well-being first made her “selfish”
A woman asked the Reddit community for advice after clashing with her husband about choosing to undergo skin removal surgery instead of having another child right now.
“This is a really hard post to write, but I really need to know if I’m the a------,” she begins. Two years ago, she weighed 260 pounds and said she was “horribly depressed,” even though she had a loving husband and two young children.
She explained that her husband met her when she was at her lowest. “He loved me anyway despite all of this which I feel is important to specify,” she wrote.