Dear Eric: I have a friend I have known for decades.

Normally when we speak on the phone, she talks about her life and concerns at great length. Now, I am growing a little weary that our conversations are so one-sided.

What can I say to her to raise her awareness about this, or should I just let it go? Frankly, I have begun shying away from her.

– All Talked Out

Dear Talked Out: Gentle but clear redirection might help. “I’m excited to talk to you about [X] but when we talk, I sometimes have trouble interjecting. It would mean a lot to me if you’d ask me about my life or made space for me to share.”

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