Dear Annie: My husband and I have been married for 11 years. We’ve always had a solid partnership with no major issues. But lately, I’ve been feeling like I’m just a supporting character in his life.

He recently started a new job that he’s passionate about, and while I’m happy for him, everything seems to revolve around his schedule, his goals, his stress. I work full-time, too, and we have two kids, but somehow I’ve become the default parent and household manager while he gets to “focus.”

When I try to bring it up, he says he’s just “under a lot of pressure” and that it’s temporary. But it’s been almost a year. I don’t want to keep score, but I also have goals of my own that I feel like I’m sacrificing so he can pursue his.

How do I bring this up again in a way that doesn’t come off as

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