Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so today we’re diving into the archives of Care and Feeding to share classic parenting letters with our readers. Have a question for Care and Feeding? Submit it here .

Dear Care and Feeding,

About three weeks ago, we converted my 2-year-old’s crib to a toddler bed. For potty training (which began 10 days ago), we’re using a method that requires you to throw out the diapers and switch to underwear all the time, including at night. He’s doing really well with it, and we haven’t had any accidents in three days.

Here’s the issue. He is waking up at night at least three times (or four or six) to come get me so I can take him to the toilet. He can’t pull his own underwear down. He goes almost every time. One time, he went to the b

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