Jennifer Lopez has revealed how she moves on from expired love. Appearing on The Howard Stern Show, the actor and singer reflected on her past loves, joking that once a relationship is over, she doesn't look back. "Once I'm done, you're dead to me," the Kiss of the Spider Woman star joked, adding, "I'm going to get in trouble! "This is why I never wanted to come on here. I'll get in trouble. No, but I'm one of those people, I don't hold on, to be honest. Not dead to me - but definitely, it's over, I'm going to move on." The Grammy nominee has racked up four marriages to Ojani Noa, Cris Judd, Marc Anthony and Ben Affleck. Speaking to Stern about her beginnings, Lopez shared that her high school boyfriend, whom she dated for 10 years, has since died. "We didn't really keep in touch," she recalled of the years after she moved from the Bronx to Los Angeles to pursue dance and acting. "He was one of the most lovely people ever... I kind of outgrew it in a certain way. He was a real Bronx guy who had a job at the fruit market. And I wanted to do all these big things." As for her divorce from Ben Affleck, Lopez told Stern she has lived her life "very out loud" but now wants to keep romance "so much more quiet in my life".