The Majority of Women Think They’re Too Fat for Sex

As a society that claims to be body positive, we witness and perpetuate a ton of harsh criticism and toxic messaging regularly. Take one scroll on TikTok, and you’ll see countless companies and influencers pushing beauty products and procedures that will “fix” whatever insecurity you’re struggling with.

Unfortunately, many of us have been led to believe we must hide or change the most unique and human parts of ourselves. We’re shown the ideal body type—which changes every few years, mind you—and “perfect” facial features, which many people will strive to achieve through expensive injectables. We’re told to “age with grace,” as if that means erasing the evidence of leading a fulfilling life, filled with laughter and fueled by resilience.

These beauty standards bleed into our relationships