DEAR ABBY: I have an amazing fiancée who is smart, beautiful and honest. I couldn’t ask for more. We are getting married next year, and we’re excited about the future we’ll have together.
However, I am struggling with something in regard to my fiancée. She has noticeable facial hair. I don’t know how to talk to her about it. I know saying something would hurt her feelings, which is something I want to avoid. What’s the best way to go about saying something without sounding like a jerk? -- TREADING LIGHTLY IN FLORIDA
DEAR TREADING: Many women have facial hair to some degree. By that I mean a mustache, unibrow, sideburns and even chin hair. Many of them don’t realize that people notice because they don’t. Because you are engaged to be married, raise the subject privately and very gently. (