DEAR HELOISE: Hey there. I wanted to write in with two hints from a boy in Illinois.

My mother lives alone, and I’ve asked her to turn on the front porch light when she goes to bed, then turn it off when she gets up. I’ve asked the neighbors to check on her light. If it’s still on around 11 a.m., I ask them to please call her and check in on her.

The second thought is: When I make the grocery list, I memorize it and leave it in the car. It’s great practice for the brain. Last time I did this, I only forgot two items.

— Keith Filges, via email

DEAR HELOISE: I have a very clear memory of being 7 or 8 years old and heading to my friend’s house after school. Her mother served us carrots and apple slices as we played a game on the floor. I loved it. It was simple and good for us. It remains

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