Dear Sahaj: My husband’s family talks out of both sides of their mouth regarding how they feel about interracial marriage. I’m a White female married to a Black male, and they will list reasons why they think White women are bad for pursuing Black men (to be fair, he pursued me), then say it’s okay to love who you love. I don’t say much because, well, frankly I’m afraid to because I don’t want to be insensitive. I guess I have White guilt but then also get my feelings hurt.

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