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Dear How to Do It,

I’m a 36-year-old woman, and recently, I got a buzz cut, as I’m dealing with some scalp issues and it’s easier to mark things when there isn’t a lot of hair in the way. My husband of nine years, “Edward,” has had an odd reaction.

He has recently discovered that he enjoys just kind of rubbing my head and running his fingers through my very short hair. He says it’s soft and very nice. The other night, he actually ejaculated from doing nothing but running his hand around the back of my head.

It’s made the whole thing weird to realize he’s sexualized it that much. I don’t mind, exactly, but I also just find the whole thing strange and don’t kn

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