Dear Mary: I’m a single woman in my 50s and feel sad, lonely and invisible to men, but would love to meet my soulmate

Dear Mary: I’m a single woman in my 50s and feel sad, lonely and invisible to men, but would love to meet my soulmate

"I find myself in my 50s, alone, no friends, no partner and don’t know what to do." Photo: Getty

Question: I’m wondering if anyone else feels like me. I find myself in my 50s, alone, no friends, no partner and don’t know what to do. I have no interest in joining clubs at my age. It feels like life has passed me by.

I’ve tried meeting men but they only seem interested in one thing, and when I say it’s not what I want, they don’t want me.