Dear Abby:

When I was invited to see the birth of my great-grandchild, I said yes. I was told if my granddaughter didn’t give birth by the 14th of the month at the latest, the doctor would induce on that day. I forgot it could happen on ANY day. I went out of town on Friday the 11th, which is when my granddaughter called to let me know she was on her way to the hospital.

I missed the birth of my great-granddaughter! I know it’s my fault, and I am heartbroken because I can never get that back. Also, my granddaughter is no longer speaking to me. I’ve tried calling her, but she won’t answer. I feel so horribly sad, like I’ve made the mistake of a lifetime. Please advise.

—Tripped Up in Colorado

Dear Tripped Up,

While your absence at your great-grandchild’s birth was unfortunate, it is no

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