Moderator’s note:

If you find yourself disagreeing with this person’s actions, we encourage you not to downvote the post. Instead, kindly express your opinions in the comments. We recommend maintaining politeness and articulating your thoughts with well-constructed arguments.

So I (25F) have been dating my boyfriend “Ryan” (32M) for almost 3 years. About a year into our relationship, Ryan adopted a golden retriever named Daisy. She was sweet, but he’s always been kind of… lazy about pet care. I ended up walking, feeding, and grooming her most of the time.

When we moved in together, he promised he’d “step up” as her owner. Spoiler: he didn’t.

Daisy became more my dog than his, but I didn’t mind – she was my baby

Then, last spring, Ryan got a new job out of town. He said it was just a t

See Full Page