For 60 years, Cosmopolitan has been here for you —and your mom and her mom and her mom—on all things love and relationships. As times have changed, so has the advice we give, but one thing remains the same: We’re committed to helping you figure out who you are and what you love. So our editor-in-chief, Willa Bennett, is here to respond to your latest questions about it all. Here’s what’s been on your minds lately.

Why does it feel impossible to move from online matches to real-life dates?

Texting on an app feels safer than risking rejection in person. I set a three to five messages rule. If there’s chemistry after those conversations, I suggest a meeting. If the other person doesn’t respond or won’t make a plan, I know I’ve saved myself time in the long run.

How much should I car

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