Jessi Ngatikaura 's secret is out.

After facing rumors she had cheated on husband Jordan Ngatikaura , the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star confirmed on the third season of the Hulu series that she did have an emotional affair with Vanderpump Villa 's Marciano Brunette amid a rough patch in her marriage .

However, according to the MomToker, she and Jordan—with whom she shares kids Jagger , 5, and Jovi , 2—"both made mistakes for sure."

"Mine being the affair and his being the emotional abuse, but I think it takes two to tango," she told People in an interview published Nov. 13. "And having that toxic dynamic definitely got me into the mindset of where I was and why I did what I did."

Jessi continued, "I wish I never had, and I hope Jordan feels the same abou

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