“Torn” shared in a recent Dear Annie column how their once joyful book club turned sour when one member began dominating conversations and group texts. Despite gentle attempts to address the behavior, the dynamic didn’t improve, leading members to disengage. Eventually, a few regrouped without the disruptive member, forming a smaller, drama-free club. When the excluded member found out, she responded with hurt and anger, leaving the group feeling guilty.

Annie reassured the reader that they acted with kindness and fairness, emphasizing that choosing peace over conflict isn’t cruel. She advises responding to any future messages with brief kindness, such as: “We really valued the time we all shared, but the group has changed direction. I wish you all the best.” Annie concludes that protec

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