DEAR ABBY: My wife of 31 years and I have been fighting over politics and cultural changes in our country. The arguments have cooled down by mutual agreement, but so has our sexual desire for each other.
Our marriage consultant has always taken my wife’s position; I am left on my own.
I have no support from the rest of my family (three lovely daughters), but I still love and respect my wife.
She told me that I must switch my politics to hers or she will leave me. What do I do? -- THREATENED IN WISCONSIN
DEAR THREATENED: Tell your wife and her marriage consultant that as your political arguments have dwindled, so has your sex life. It may be time to seek professional counseling with someone else on your own. Your wife’s ultimatum is unrealistic. Unless the two of you can agree to disagr

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