DEAR ERIC: I have an 18-year-old daughter who just moved four hours away to college. Her father and I have been separated for almost three years. Prior to moving to college, she visited him only during court-ordered visitation. She felt like he did not want her around or he made no effort to have a relationship with her.

She recently came home to visit for three days. She did not go see her father. Every day I would ask if she’d seen her dad and every day, she said he knows I’m here but hasn’t called or texted me.

Not 30 minutes after she left, he called and cursed me out. He blames me for her not coming to visit.

After a child turns 18, they do not have to visit their parents. I understand why he feels the way he does, and I understand why she feels the way she does. I just don’t know

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