Hosting Thanksgiving is not an easy task. When the cooking giant Allrecipes asked its readers how many hours on average it takes to prepare for the holiday, they said that cooking the meal itself takes around seven hours! So, it’s understandable why someone wouldn’t want the burden of hosting.

However, when this woman approached her big family about taking a break from hosting Thanksgiving, she was met with accusations of selfishness. Detailing her reasons for feeling burnt out, she asked strangers on the internet whether passing the baton of hosting Thanksgiving to one of her sisters would be so terrible.

The oldest sister of the family asked her big family whether she could take a break from hosting Thanksgiving

Although she mentioned feeling burnt out, her sisters still accused her o

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