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A man isn't ready to have kids, and he's not sure if that means he will be a bad parent one day

The Reddit user said he and his wife have started seriously discussing kids and he doesn't feel "desperate" to have them

Because of those feelings, the man is questioning what kind of parent he might be in the future

A man isn't ready to have kids yet — and he's not sure if that means he'll be a bad parent if he does have a child one day.

The original poster (OP) shared their story on Reddit and explained that he, 34, and his wife, 30, have just started to seriously talk about having kids. He said that while both of them would enjoy having kids, he just isn't "desperate to have a kid."

The OP said he doesn't think of himself as someone who knows he was put on Earth to be a f

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