DEAR ERIC: For years I’ve seen the same complaints about gift-receivers who are unhappy about the gifts they receive (ugly, wrong size, wrong style, not needed, not wanted, etc.) yet they cannot find a way out of this circle. For many years I was also on the receiving end of gifts that were lovingly wrapped and gifted. I understand that for many people the best part of Christmas is to send a beautifully wrapped and thoughtful gift.

I’ve discovered that when people ask, “what do you want?” and “I need a list for you/your family”, it’s coming from a place of love, not to terrorize you. However, I also know that I am one of the lucky people that needs nothing and wants for nothing.

My response is to request gifts of sheets, towels, blankets, cookware, dishes, suitcases, etc. and I happily d

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