Dear Readers: On November 9, I answered a letter from someone who was trying to find a way to acknowledge her impending divorce in her Christmas cards, which would contain a photo of the letter writer and her kids, sans amicable soon-to-be ex.

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I made a few suggestions and invited you to lend your wisdom. Here are a few great suggestions and one that made me laugh.

Dear Eric: The first year, I included my soon-to-be ex in the card because I wanted to communicate that although dad and I were no longer a couple, we would still always be a family. It’s how he and I both felt, and now, five years later, I’m glad we continue to hold that perspective.

I wrote, “What a doozy of a year. It started with a ‘radical change in our family structure’ ([ex’s name] and I split, but ami

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