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For Christmas this year, Andrea Dahms decided to change the way she thought about gift giving

Instead of giving her kids physical gifts, Dahms thought about giving them a family trip

She now tells PEOPLE her other piece of advice for parents this holiday season

When it came time to get her kids' Christmas presents this year, Andrea Dahms decided to listen to what they really wanted.

In a now viral video , Dahms can be heard asking her daughter Brinley, 13, to name three things she got for Christmas last year. The teenager pauses for a second and asks if it has to be from her parents. She ultimately says she can't remember.

But when she asks her daughter if she can remember where they took their family vacation this year, Brinley is quick to answer. "Lake Tahoe," the

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