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Dear Eric : Twenty years ago, my husband’s brother and his wife let us know they were going no-contact with us. They said it was permanent.

When we asked the reasons, we heard we are insensitive and had hurt their feelings beyond repair.

They also stopped contact between us and their 3-year-old son and their baby. They said contact with us would damage their children.

Attempts to apologize to them for offenses we barely understand didn’t work.

Five years ago, at a family wedding, my brother-in-law spoke with my husband but snubbed me to my face. He wouldn’t even say hello.

Now another family wedding is scheduled next year. I have developed close relationships with others in the extended family but dread dealing with these relatives again.

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