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Dear How to Do It,
Last week, I stopped by my husband’s office to drop off a suit jacket he’d forgotten to bring that he needed for a meeting. Long story short, we ended up having sex on his desk and nearly got caught when someone knocked on the door. The thing is, this has been the most exhilarating sexual experience we’ve had in ages. Should we try for a repeat, or is it not worth someone walking in?
—Take the Risk?
Dear Risk,
It being worth the risk depends on how attached you both are to the current lifestyle that your husband’s job affords you. In almost every employment context, sexual activity in one’s workspace would constitute a fireable offense. I