"Is it worth it? Are you happy in your life having a child?"

These blunt questions stopped thousands mid-scroll. Posted from bed by a mindset coach called Kate, the post quickly went viral on TikTok (@ alignment_with_koko) , amassing over 393,000 views.

Newsweek spoke to the 35-year-old woman about her clip captioned: "Help a millennial gal out," and her thoughts and fears on parenthood.

Kate, who lives in the U.K. told Newsweek that the flood of responses initially put her off motherhood—but after another conversation with her 39-year-old fiancé, the couple have decided they'd like to be "one and done."

In the video, Kate explained that her partner wants to be a dad, but she remains undecided and would like more time. However, fertility in women is known to steadily decline wit

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