DEAR MISS MANNERS: What should my mannered response be to a co-worker’s sneeze? And what should my response be to those who say “God bless you” to me after I’ve sneezed?

Not wanting to perpetuate religious superstition, I say nothing when a co-worker sneezes. That doesn’t bother me much, but not acknowledging their good graces when I’ve sneezed does strike me as rude.

I’ve never explained myself to my co-workers, and none have ever brought it up to me, but am sure it’s been noticed that I seem to be lacking in this area of politeness.

GENTLE READER: Do you also examine each morning to decide if it will be a good one before issuing your daily greeting?

Some conventions are usually just meant as conventions. “Bless you” is less disruptive than “Are you OK?” And the polite response is “Th

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