Dear Eric: Our close friends frequently babysit their first grandchild. Now, whenever we spend time with them, it’s impossible to carry on any kind of conversation.

Being besotted is understandable, but this couple continually directs the 4-year-old to perform for us, e.g., “Say your ABCs,” “Sing a song,” “What color is this?” “Tell our guests where you went yesterday.”

The child is not allowed to think or speak for himself. My concern is the effect this has on the child. It can’t be healthy.

– Concerned Friends

Dear Friends : It seems like there are a couple of aspects to this question. Some are within your control, others, not so much.

Is it possible that your friends are trying to entertain you by prompting their grandchild to tell you these things? Four-year-olds can be chatty a

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