Dear Abby: Retired woman notices a stark lack of back-and-forth when conversing with friends

DEAR ABBY: I am a 60-year-old retired woman, happily married with a positive mindset. I am very active and stay current on world events.

I have noticed over the past few years that many of my friends only want to talk about themselves. I was taught that a conversation should be an opportunity for both parties to engage in talking and listening, but now it seems like when we get together for a meal, they go on and on about themselves or people I don’t know. Then, at the end of the meal, they’ll finally throw in a “How are you?”

I find this extremely rude. I should be able to get a word in edgewise during a conversation. What can I do so these long-winded friends won’t leave me frustrated? -- LISTENING PATIENTLY IN NEW YORK

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