Dear Candid Candace: Labor Day just came and went, and now all my suburban neighbors are hyper-focused on Halloween. Like every year, folks around here are fixated upon adult party plans which include the opportunity to dress scantily and imbibe heavily. This year, there are even competing adult parties within the neighborhood. It seems to me that this holiday has spiraled out of control among adults and the little kids are getting left behind with either a babysitter or intoxicated parents. Any ideas as to how to change this neighborhood dynamic, or do we just do Halloween our way – keep in mind that suburban shunning occurs if events go unattended. Signed, Halloweened Out
Dear Halloweened Out: Oh, the horror! It seems like Halloween has turned your suburban paradise into a spooky bat