DEAR MISS MANNERS: I was working with an older woman and we hit it off very well. Her eyes were noticeably red, and my ophthalmologist had suggested an over-the-counter product for me that works beautifully and is safe to use.

I was tempted to tell her about it, but thought that it might be embarrassing for her if I mentioned her eyes.

Did I do the right thing by being silent, or did I miss an opportunity to do someone a favor?

GENTLE READER: Yes. Possibly.

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